A tip for a man to make an emotional connection to a woman
What is the different between men and women in a relationship? Well, before you answered that question I want you to see this scenario first. Have you ever been on the situation where even though the physical attraction feels perfect but you just did not connect with your partner on an emotional level? It might fun for a man but it’s temporary.
Why? Because, for most of women they need an emotional connection more than just a physical attraction in a relationship (in these case I am not speaking for them who just looking for sex). They even need more than just a physical attraction just to
accept go on a date (correct me if I wrong here ladies).
So how we can connect that emotional connection? As you know physical attraction happens pretty fast. The attraction is made just in a split second, you just see her eyes and she saw your eyes, then you smile at her, she smile back at you. Well, that’s easy. Wait, after the eyes part get over things get a little more complicated. At this moment when you decide to take a move on her you must start to build an emotional connection. And it requires a conversation. The problem is when you’re strongly attracted to somebody, making a conversation could be something difficult.
Is it really that hard? Actually is not. Making an emotional connection with a woman is about finding something in common. Finding something that both of you can relate to, and that actually means something to you both. Here’s an example:
You: So, what do you do?
The Girl you wanted for a date: I’m a pediatrician.
You: (laughing) I always enjoy watching ER on the TV! Is it as interesting as it looks like Gorge Clooney?
That’s what we call an emotional connection. You tell her what you like to watch while she explains what she is doing for a living. Do the same stuff on your own situation by relating something you feel, you know or you have with something that you see on her (not the physical attraction, for a moment forget about her big boops). But if you (men) could not found anything that you can relate to each other than you might start to think that may be you are not meant to each other. Don’t force something that not meant for you.
