Asking a woman for her phone number
Well, this is not exactly advice for a woman only, you can also apply for a man. Here is the situation. You crush with somebody and you want to ask them a date or just want to talk with them for more information. The most feasible way is just to call them. And when you know you want to call someone, it is obvious that you need to call the phone number. One of the best ways to approach someone is to demonstrate your good perconality and show that you are not some crazy lonely guy or psycho-girl. Here is the step in order:
Smile, speak slowly and make eye contact.
Ask the number in a friendly tone. For example, instead saying: “So, can I have your number?” Try something like: “I’d like to stay in touch. Is there a number where I can reach you? “Give your phone number if you want is certainly correct, but it puts you in the position to wait for their call. The best way to compensate for this position of passivity is to ask for their numbers. Or you can take and not give them your own. Just to give the illusion of a mysterious man.
Give your own number. Offer your number is a great way to deflect suspicions by putting the ball in the proverbial person on the other court. Placement rather than asking you also can be vulnerable first. You can earn points sensitivity by saying: “Look, I know these days, a beautiful woman like you should be careful, if you prefer, I
can give you a way to contact me. I’d love you to court the old and you call it, but I do not want to make you uncomfortable in asking you to give me your number if you’re not ready. ”
In a perfect world, you could say: “I’m not sure I want to call you, but what the hell, give me your number in case.” Of course, a line like that is not exactly flattering. You are probably better served by an expression of interest
but you give by saying something like this: “Listen, I really love you, but I am… (choose one: busy at work, travels a lot, out of a relationship, overcast of herpes, which is scheduled for surgery, about to be drafted)
. . . if this is correct, I would like to take your number and call you in a month or two more. “(Of course, if you use the line herpes, do not expect to be too enthusiastic.)
By doing this you are just simply keeping your options open without making someone else charges. If you feel really ambivalent to ask for a phone number, you can offer your own way, saying: “Why not take my number?” Thus, if the other person calls, you can go on his enthusiasm and nickel. After all, every one of us to be courted.
If you’re not interested, do not ask their number. If you ask a number, the assumption is that you intend to use it. Do not spread the misery as peanut butter. If you have absolutely no interest to another and do not intend to appeal, simply do not ask. Men in particular feel that not asking for a phone number is really tough but if you can limit yourself to “see around you” or “Nice to see you again,” you’ll spare yourself and another person some wear and tear.
