What you should know before asking for a date
If you love someone and you want to know more, you may have to ask them a date. This is a normal practice for men, and it is becoming increasingly common among women. If you have someone in mind that you would like to go out with, take a deep breath and follow those guidelines.
Ask yourself first - Learn why you ask them and if it’s for the right reasons. Acknowledge your expectations as a result of saying yes or no.
Saying no is a possibility - Be prepared that you ask the person that say no. If this happens, do not take rejection personally, and not to hunt as well. Maybe they are thinking about it and you get a “yes” answer later.
Choose the right time - See that the person you seek is in a lighter mood. In some cases, do not touch when they are stressed after work, while eating, or with a group of friends.
Learn in advance what you are going to say - A simple “Hi!… I am (put your name) and I wonder if you are free for lunch?” Sufficient. Practice what you might say in advance so that you do not seem to relate to language.
Do not ask open-ended questions - Phrases like “Do you want to leave?” Can lead to awkward conversations followed.
Do not ask the questions vague - not to give a vague impression on your future date with questions such as “What are you doing Saturday night?”
Avoid laying the overall drunk - Some people think taking a shot a glass or two will make them more courage. But no, you don’t want to end up saying some thing stupid right?
Think in advance about the time, date, and place - Before you call them, make sure you already have an idea of where and when your date is, just in case they say yes . That way, you show that you are serious.
