Do not change for love
Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner constantly complains about you and / or things that you do? Or maybe did they just make subtle comments but you knew they really mean? Because of this complain you may have noticed that you were changing things on you that they have complained about. They may have also threatened to terminate your relationship if you have not changed.
You May have convinced yourself to do exactly what they said because you love them so much and change a little part of you for them would be just fine. But the truth is changing is not psychologically good if you do it because someone else When ever you change anything about yourself for other person, it will have negative consequences. When you change one thing, May you be asked to amend another and another and another until it comes a point where you do anything or say is never good enough. That’s why this kind of relationship will not survive for a long term.
Whatever change you made for someone else but yourself, it will return at some point, because you are, in essence, squashing the spirit of your real personality. And the essence of your true nature, can not and will not be held for a long time.
Most likely, these changes you have made for “love” will turn out to be anger to your partner. If they do not like who you are, is not your problem, it is theirs. Remember that you choose who you want to be with and vice versa And gently remind them that if those things bother them so much, maybe you both should consider the possibility that the relationship won’t work out because you respect yourself. And it means that won’t change to fit someone else idea of what ideal partner should look like. You are who you are and if they do not like it, they do not need to be with you. If they do not love and accept you as you are, do not be afraid to tell them to take a walk .
Above all, be true to yourself body, mind and soul. You will find that the honour and respect you in that way will soon result in attracting and good health, love and fulfilling relationship as you ever dreamed possible.
