Five question for your first date
First impression is everything. And First date is all about first impression. Almost 90% of successful relationships are come from the first date. This is why a lot of people where have crazy preparation for those important event.
I also had this syndrome. After I got my first date (back then), I usually hard to sleep. I want every thing to be perfect. But there is always certain questions that make the step to a great date become some thing impossible. So, here is what you should do for your first date:
What is the best activity for a first date, Have a dinner or go to a movie?
The goal of a first date is to know each other. This is the right moment for us to talk and enjoy a nice chat with our future partner. Can you imagine, how much time wasted if you choose go to watch a movie. A simple short movie should spend a 100 minute, and we are not allowed to talk in a theater. Then you already know the answer. Restaurant is a best place to start a relationship. Any way, people are harder to make an adjustment in an eating pattern than the movie genre adjustment. So if you have the same interest on certain type food, you already finish half of a journey to a better relationship.
My car or my dates car?
The choice is yours. But one thing you should know is, conditions of a car always reflect the owner personality. Well, if you’re ready show your great personality, you should bring your own car. But if you decide to know your date then you should ask your date to bring the ride.
What should I talk about?
The goal is to find the match between you two. So, forget about make a proud of your self. Build the conversation from asking your partner first. Then after he/she told you what they like, they want, they think, etc. You can start to tell about your self. For example, try to ask they favorite movie. Listen to what they told you why they like it so much. After they are finish you can continue to tell about your favorite movie.
First, Second, or Third base?
All you need is just a little patient. Don’t push it to hard. Let it flow like water. Follow where it’s going. Let the situation brought you and not the otherwise. Me, personally think, a first base is more than enough for the first date. Less than that is not a problem. And any how, you don’t want to have a partner who slept with every body that they meet on their first date right.
Should I call first after the date?
There is no reason to hold you back. If he/she likes you then they must be wanting to hearing a word from you very soon. It’s the best test to see the result of your first date. If they return your call with great answer, it might be a good signal that your first date is a successful date.
