How to leaving an abusive relationship
There are times when you criticize by your partner on everything and start to feel suffocated in this relationship. He is dominating all the time, and even tries to alienate you from your family and friends. These are abusive personality symptoms and you begin to hate your partner and you do not wish to remain with him anymore. In this case, one thing you should always keep in mind is you safety.
Why is it so difficult? Because you always start feeling that you are the cause of your family break-up and that is ruining the lives of your children as well and sometimes you feel that you are not enough giving your partner a second chance. However, despite the fact that you think about all these things, it sometimes becomes necessary for you to quit. However, if you have made your decision, because you should always be careful about your safety because your partner might try to harm you right when you decided to flee your relationship.
The first and the main thing you should do is prioritize the things that are going to take that with you to a safe place. You should always be very careful about where you are going to stay as a person to be trusted, too. Suppose you prefer to go to a friend’s place, which is secure enough for you then take only the things that are necessary for you like certain legal documents that are necessary for you and your children. If you have any proof that your husband is an abuser then carry with you forever. You should also bring enough money and financial instruments as well. Always make sure to carry the contact number of some other trusted friends or family. If you want you can also bring some of your personal belongings with you. It may be something that is gifted to you by your father and your mothers, etc
Leaving a relationship, even if it is an abusive, will bring a great deal of pain. It is to cry. You might think it is not going stop. Trust me it will over by the time goes by. Each relationship have a good thing that you will be miss. But remember that you have to pay a high price if you want something good.
To deal with trauma, do not judge your self because leaving your partner. let your heart feel your feelings entirely. Spend some time to rebuild yourself and let you fall into the things you wanted to do a long time, but could not because of the relationship. Take a long hot bath, take a walk, tangle on her bed and watch their favorite movie. Spoil your self until you feel better.
