Lose your date by whining
Did you want to get rid of your date as soon as possible? It’s easy. Just whining in front of your date, then you don’t need 10 days to lose your date. You may need less than that. But what is whining? Dr. Joy Brown explain That whining is the obnoxious, nasal complaining that serves no purpose other than to say, “Pay attention to me because I’m helpless and weak and irritating, and I can’t get your attention based on strength or knowledge or reason so I’ll drive you crazy by pitching my voice and my grievance in such a way that you’ll do anything to have me stop, but you’ll hate both yourself and me in the morning.”
You may hear this very often in our daily conversation:
“Damn, my boss was killing me!” (Well stop whining and get another job, will you!)
“I just wanna scream, The traffic was horrible!” (Well try to move to a country side, this is a modern city get used to it!)
“I didn’t have enough money to pay the bill, all prices are went up!” (You and the rest of the world feel the same way)
“Damn, my candidate fail on the election” (So, all you have to do is just wait another 4 years)
You see the point of the ‘whining’ concept is not about the complain, but its about the ‘no purpose’ concept. Your date is not a trash can. She or he want to release their stress by going out. Then try to fulfill that to keep your date and relationship.
So, if you have a date, or if you are planning to ask some one out just leave whining to 3-year-olds who don’t want to take a bath. And If you’ve got a legitimate complaint, say it clearly and cogently and respectfully and see what you can do to solve the problem. Because the worse part of whining is because it makes you personality looks helpless and weak. And I can a sure you that no body wants to spend the rest of their live with people who have a helpless and weak character.
