Apr 28th, 2008 | dating, relationship, marriage, love | No Comments
Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner constantly complains about you and / or things that you do? Or maybe did they just make subtle comments but you knew they really mean? Because of this complain you may have noticed that you were changing things on you that they have complained about. They may have also threatened to terminate your relationship if you have not changed.
You May have convinced yourself to do exactly what they said because you love them so much and change a little part of you for them would be just fine. But the truth is changing is not psychologically good if you do it because someone else When ever you change anything about yourself for other person, it will have negative consequences. When you change one thing, May you be asked to amend another and another and another until it comes a point where you do anything or say is never good enough. That’s why this kind of relationship will not survive for a long term.
Whatever change you made for someone else but yourself, it will return at some point, because you are, in essence, squashing the spirit of your real personality. And the essence of your true nature, can not and will not be held for a long time.
Most likely, these changes you have made for “love” will turn out to be anger to your partner. If they do not like who you are, is not your problem, it is theirs. Remember that you choose who you want to be with and vice versa And gently remind them that if those things bother them so much, maybe you both should consider the possibility that the relationship won’t work out because you respect yourself. And it means that won’t change to fit someone else idea of what ideal partner should look like. You are who you are and if they do not like it, they do not need to be with you. If they do not love and accept you as you are, do not be afraid to tell them to take a walk .
Above all, be true to yourself body, mind and soul. You will find that the honour and respect you in that way will soon result in attracting and good health, love and fulfilling relationship as you ever dreamed possible.
Apr 13th, 2008 | dating, sex | No Comments
Kiss her lips without touching them (non-Kiss)
Have you seen the movie “Derailed” with Jennifer Aniston and Clive Owens, where he said he could kiss her lips without touching them? Well when women watch that movie, about 80% of them hold their breath and shiver in anticipation (the other 20% say “get it on will you!”) I know it seems odd, but women love the promise, potential and the thrill of anticipation, evidence that the journey is sometimes better than arriving it self.
Press your body against hers (gently).
Ok So you have finally arrived at the moment. Now, pull her body gently, and press your entire body against hers. Slowly! This is the promise, not proof! By using the same principles as the ‘non-kiss, it will tease and not terrorize her.
Go Gentle with the tongue!
Why do guys think most women want a tongue sandwich? Be sure to use your tongue, but use it gently. Do not choke her with it! The tongue can say “the passion, desire and virility” for you, but for her, she might say ‘whoa, waaay too much! ” So let her lead the way. In other words follow her tongue, then gently raise the bid.
Open Lips, Eyes Closed, And Say “Mmmm”
When you talk to her keep in mind that her eyes need to be fully open, but for the kiss, the closing is the way to go. Keep your lips slightly open, warm, and make appreciative noises quietly (no growling, but rather the kind of sigh when you want to drink a good wine - or supping a beer!)
Use your hands wisely
what do you do with your hands? Just flip your hands gently on her back, and then remove yourself from her gently, but firmly. Once again try to follow her lead. Adjust your pressure with hers. It is already tell you everything you need to know, if you listen.
Apr 12th, 2008 | dating, relationship, marriage | No Comments
You probably do not meet people in your ordinary life, or you just not get connected with the right of person. So if you want to meet your man, the first thing that you have to do is decide what you have to offer for your future partner. The second is broadening your circle of friends. Here are the steps on how you do it.
Take a golf course
Golf is a male thing, join them on the course. Men network on the golf course all the time, move forward and make progress to flirt. Even if you are not good in sports, men are more likely to be encouraging to your efforts.
Go to a sport bar in a game night
Why watch major sporting events at home when you can hang out in a sports bar complete with a large screen TV, electronic games sports? It is a good way to meet people. If you are a sporty kind of girl than try to impress guys with your knowledge. Sport is an event of participation and it is much more fun to watch as a group than alone.
Volunteer to work for a non-profit organization
People who are willing to give a little of their free time are often a very caring people, capable of passion and commitment, there are loads of group activity, that means that you can expand your circle of friends with the same interests. There is always the possibility of a relationship is progressing at an early date.
Join on a political campaign group.
If you are politically inclined and have a vested interest in which you are willing to give a little time, this is a good way to find a date. Not only that, but you can be sure that if you have adhered to both fight for the same cause, you have at least one thing in common. If it does not work to find a date that you have lost nothing, but at least they have widened your circle of friends.
Evening course
You do not have to be academic here, it is not necessary to study physics. Find out what you always wanted to learn. Take time to study another language, or do something “arty”. Art classes depending where you live, cover a very broad base of the sculpture, water colors and oil painting. Men can always be found in a classroom about car maintenance.
Take some criticism from friends.
Marketing yourself to find a date is not always easy. Take the advice of some friends who have embarked on a long-term relationship. If you are still attracting the wrong kind of person, ask a friend why he thought that was the case. If you have a healthy emotional life, you should rather on the spot, in a relationship of someone who is evil. Make your own evidence, some women do not really believe they are not worthy of being loved. Boost your self-esteem. If low self-esteem is a problem, then try to look at the lower end.
Enroll in a self-improvement
Men sometimes tend to be more into self improvement than women. However, any organization that has taken the necessary steps to register and participate in this type of activity are probably sensitive, chances are they also seek to interact with other sensitive populations. It’s a great way for men to know how women feel. Be positive, you can not meet the man of your dreams, but will probably increase your self-esteem.
Join in a gym
Even if you are fit and healthy, you can always find men in a gym. If you are not in shape, then fitness is a great way to boost your self-esteem. Being fit gives you a better outlook on life and makes you feel much better. You are also more relaxed when you look your best.
Stand back and take stock
Men are not lost souls, they are not hiding away. You will have much more likely to connect with someone if you are personally satisfied. If you are in sports big time consider competing in a marathon. Take a course in creative writing, to change your career. Spoil yourself, and have some fun
Read “Dating and marriage tips for dummies”
You know the explanation on these step right!
Apr 8th, 2008 | dating, relationship | No Comments
If you are a musician, you do not need to play your instrument for her to retain her interest. She saw you on stage, saw you play, Then if she loves you, it is not necessary to do something more.
If you are an author of a poetry and she likes your work, you do not need to recite poetry to her on the date to impress her.
Just act normal. The part of you that she loves is the part of you that your own thing.
If you write a personal ad which is very funny and hooks his attention, there is no reason to try to be funny when we talk about it in person. While it is expected that either of you while you set the wrong precedent or she has the wrong idea of how things work.
You are not there to entertain her. I repeat, you are not there to entertain her. And if she leaves because you ceased to entertain (which means that you have set the wrong precedent), or she had the bad idea from the start.
No matter what you are and what you put on “view” that shows your ability is not a concern for her. Being great when do your own thing, but to act normal around her.
Apr 2nd, 2008 | sex, relationship, love | No Comments
Having sex must be the ultimate sense for both you, but sometimes it can feel less special. To help you make the most of the time here are six things you should avoid doing while having sex with your partner.
1) Maria, Louise, ehmmm…Britney?
Unless you have both agreed to play this in advance, it is a no-no for sure and it is very likely to have problems with your partner. If you are very comfortable together, dropping could boost a little passion in the context of a role-playing game spontaneous, but no matter how long you date is, if it is sounds so natural it will always break their heart.
2) Are you done?
This may disturb people (specially for men) for two main reasons: First, it gives the impression that you are waiting for the experience to be done immediately, and then because a man for much of his sexual act is based around orgasm, and the idea that you do not even know his intense moment of pleasure can take the pleasure out of him.
3) Would you please shut up!
There may be just a few things that can bring greater pleasure than to hear your lover moans of pleasure, but if you make too much additional noise just to make your partner happy. It will kill the passion right away.
4) continues to watching television or reading a book
Come on, your lover wants to feel you shake their world, not what you prefer be watching your favorite soap opera.
5) Pretend they are quite specific character.
Role playing can be fun for both partners, and to enjoy many couples adopting their policeman / woman, a nurse or other fantasies with their partners. You may find your partner is not quite as comfortable if you think they are imagining as your childhood pinup or ex-partner, though.
6) Taking it too seriously
If you accidentally do any of those mistake then make sure you do not do this! Almost all situations in the bed can be laughed off. There is no wrong in having sex, so if you take too seriously, it will spoil the atmosphere, laugh together and share the laughter will make you feel closer.
