Mar 10th, 2008 | dating, relationship | No Comments
Basically all women know how to flirt. But why some women draw crowds of men, and others, very nice and charming, are still missing their men? The point is that flirting also has its own rules, based on non-romantic laws of psychology. Without knowing it, you may take ages for searching your dream mate.
Let’s suppose that you saw on your dream man of a party or club. Don’t come to him to quickly and make a conversation. Because, a strange man is first attracted to the sexuality, nit intellect.
So you caught his look. Do not be in haste to avoid the eyes. Look directly at him for a few more seconds, once he noticed that, then close your eyes slowly, take a breath and look later. Once you see that he has averted his eyes with your support central vision, try to look at him again. A man treats such thing as a situation when a woman wants to get acquainted with him, but she is shy to do itself, so it is to steal a glance.
It is better to look over your shoulder, that you should raise slightly higher than usual. Man associate shoulder especially if it is bare or lightly covered, with female breasts. Advertisers are well aware that thing and you can often see a wonderful woman strange bill boards, in this pose.
It is well known that a naked wrist is also a strong erotic signal. Some psychologists assume this open display of wrist shows trust to a man. If you are also stroking the neck of a stem or with your hand, looking like you are lost in thought, it is also a sexual innuendo understood as any man.
Pose has an important meaning. If you sit hunched do not expect a man will come to you. Crooked back, sorry this is a sign of a senile disease, even if a girl is sitting in these pose. So straighten your back, recline, stirring with your hair and checking your skirt -gestures dolling up-. If you wear pants, put your thumbs behind a belt or an edge of a pocket - it is a gesture of sexual aggression. If you wear a skirt, bind your legs or cross them. This would create an impression of tension of the muscles of the hip and says that the woman is ready for adventure intimate.
If a man is still standing still after all these tricks, well do not waste your time on him, without doubt, he is too drunk, married or not interested in women at all.
To be continued
Mar 10th, 2008 | dating, relationship, love | No Comments
1. Release your heavy load!
If you want to find your soul mate, you must be available and not involved with people who are not for you.
2. OK, now available? Continued … “ready?” Is there any unfinished business from your previous relationship that could ruin your next relationship?
Fix it before going to the next level!
3. Then make a list of your five demands
Stick with your list and promise to your self not to get involved with someone who does not meet those five list criteria. Share your list with your closest friends and have them swear to tell you the truth and lock-in if you are off-track.
4. Good job. Next, focus on this 4 quick steps to avoid you from dating the wrong person:
• Scouting (finds people from the Internet, through friends, go out there, etc)
• Sorting (quickly determine if you meet someone has the potential)
• Screening (gather enough information to know if your needs would be met)
• Testing (date a few times and compare with the actual information)
that’s it … Nothing more, nothing less. No “trial relations,” no fun flings; only those four steps.
5. Get help.
Don’t do it alone. Dating can be scary and isolating, and your friends and family can be your safety net to help you stay on track.
6. Work it!
Most people meet their soul mate through someone they already know, so let people know that you are looking for and network like crazy.
7. Be positive and happy.
Success breeds another success and misery loves company … Your choice.
8. be the selector!
Go after what you want and not just react to what you are or who chooses.
9. Be assertive!
Ask what you want and say “no” to what you do not want.
10. Living a good life while you are now single.
“If you build it, they will come” (from the film “Field of Dreams”).
Mar 6th, 2008 | dating, relationship, love | No Comments
Women are more attracted to men who are more confident than others. In the fiercely competitive world dating, confidence is a sign of success for a man is powerful, because these main factor that women seeking in men.
But how does a guy to develop self-confidence? It is supposed to be rich or have a good job? It is supposed to be a celebrity or a powerful person? In fact, confidence is all about believing in your self, believing in your abilities and your potency. Here are some suggestions to save you more confidence.
Create your own space - Do not appear desperate approaching every woman attractive, you will find. When you are in a bar, try to calm down. Create your own “personal space” and it just scan for a single woman that you find attractive.
Talk slow, deep, and yes - Voice tone is an important indicator of your level of confidence. Speaking slowly shows that you think before you speak, say things with confidence and assertiveness. A deep voice says “male factor” in your voice, women are looking for a male partner, and not a man shopping buddy, if you know what I mean.
Irradiate positive energy - As with every type of dating vital, smiling relieves tension from your body and the conversation. Other positive body language, as discussed with open hands can make a good impression on your date.
Do not panic - If the date does not go as planned, do not panic. Do not feel uncomfortable like show signs that you are sweating, catch up on your words, actions and other downturns. In the cases that you have turned your date down, just relax, apologize and let your date flow again. After all, it is not the only pretty girl in the bar.
Keep your focus - Remember your goal, you are looking for a date. It could be you are looking for a relationship or a non-regular sexual partner. In any case, remember not to deviate from your goal.
Do not fear anything - Take a deep breath and imagine that you can do just about anything. Do not be afraid to be rejected once you approach a potential date. If you get rejected, you just have to keep your confidence again scan the bar for other prospective dates.
You just keep practicing those methods, even beyond the dating scene, until they are rooted in your subconscious. In this way, self-confidence becomes second nature to you.
Mar 5th, 2008 | dating, relationship, love | No Comments
If you love someone and you want to know more, you may have to ask them a date. This is a normal practice for men, and it is becoming increasingly common among women. If you have someone in mind that you would like to go out with, take a deep breath and follow those guidelines.
Ask yourself first - Learn why you ask them and if it’s for the right reasons. Acknowledge your expectations as a result of saying yes or no.
Saying no is a possibility - Be prepared that you ask the person that say no. If this happens, do not take rejection personally, and not to hunt as well. Maybe they are thinking about it and you get a “yes” answer later.
Choose the right time - See that the person you seek is in a lighter mood. In some cases, do not touch when they are stressed after work, while eating, or with a group of friends.
Learn in advance what you are going to say - A simple “Hi!… I am (put your name) and I wonder if you are free for lunch?” Sufficient. Practice what you might say in advance so that you do not seem to relate to language.
Do not ask open-ended questions - Phrases like “Do you want to leave?” Can lead to awkward conversations followed.
Do not ask the questions vague - not to give a vague impression on your future date with questions such as “What are you doing Saturday night?”
Avoid laying the overall drunk - Some people think taking a shot a glass or two will make them more courage. But no, you don’t want to end up saying some thing stupid right?
Think in advance about the time, date, and place - Before you call them, make sure you already have an idea of where and when your date is, just in case they say yes . That way, you show that you are serious.
Mar 5th, 2008 | dating, love | No Comments
It does not matter how you got to be alone in your mid-thirties. What is important, however, is that you have a number of priorities in order so that you can protect yourself and your date which possible getting hurt. There are too many reasons to list on the reasons why you are on the market at this stage of your life, but you must be clear about your goals, both long and short term. You do not want to be conducted on or trapped into something that you do not want in the first place.
The first things you need to consider are your short - and long-term relations objectives. If you are a confirmed bachelor (or bachlorette) certainly you do not want to be dating someone who is determined to settle down and start a family. The age is often linked to that too. A twenty-something may be looking for a good time or air. While dating some one younger can be fun, for the short time, if you are looking for a serious relationship, you may want to look elsewhere.
There are many things to take into account when dealing either above or below your age. If you get someone who is much younger, you may get hurt because they can lack of maturity that comes only from life experience. Twenty generation, are often still trying to figure out where they fit in, and are still build up their aim. The other concern is the children, or they possibly not wanting any children. If you are really serious, as in any age group, you need to discuss views on children.
On the other hand if you choose someone with more age than you, there is still a problem as well. They usually already choose what they want out of life, and, in general, are not too excited to change course. If you really want to settle down, do not go running after the man or woman who has no intention of a long-term relationship. Also, there are some generation gaps that must be taken into account. Your older lover may not appreciate your going to see rock band in concert. But understanding to each other you can face any obstacles between you two.
Another thing to consider is your financial situation. Have you spent the last ten years to get ahead in your career and the rewards that come with that? Are you ready to give up half of your money in a divorce? You will have to decide what is important in terms of the person you are dating. Even people who are not married have had their lover runoff with the bank account. Protect yourself and, if necessary, seek the advice of a lawyer before proposing or accepting a proposal.
Finally, if you have children, you need to consider the type of people who come into your life. Do you want to make any and all of your time to respond, or are you going to wait for someone fairly serious? You also have to try to defend the values you want your children to follow in their lives. You are a model, and how you would conduct no impression on your children.
In short, be smart about what you are doing. Do not let yourself be open to be taken advantage of. More than anything else, however, have fun and good luck in your romantic efforts.
