Ten Things You Can Do Right Now to Find Your Perfect Mate
1. Release your heavy load!
If you want to find your soul mate, you must be available and not involved with people who are not for you.
2. OK, now available? Continued … “ready?” Is there any unfinished business from your previous relationship that could ruin your next relationship?
Fix it before going to the next level!
3. Then make a list of your five demands
Stick with your list and promise to your self not to get involved with someone who does not meet those five list criteria. Share your list with your closest friends and have them swear to tell you the truth and lock-in if you are off-track.
4. Good job. Next, focus on this 4 quick steps to avoid you from dating the wrong person:
• Scouting (finds people from the Internet, through friends, go out there, etc)
• Sorting (quickly determine if you meet someone has the potential)
• Screening (gather enough information to know if your needs would be met)
• Testing (date a few times and compare with the actual information)
that’s it … Nothing more, nothing less. No “trial relations,” no fun flings; only those four steps.
5. Get help.
Don’t do it alone. Dating can be scary and isolating, and your friends and family can be your safety net to help you stay on track.
6. Work it!
Most people meet their soul mate through someone they already know, so let people know that you are looking for and network like crazy.
7. Be positive and happy.
Success breeds another success and misery loves company … Your choice.
8. be the selector!
Go after what you want and not just react to what you are or who chooses.
9. Be assertive!
Ask what you want and say “no” to what you do not want.
10. Living a good life while you are now single.
“If you build it, they will come” (from the film “Field of Dreams”).
