why married man cheat?
Why married man cheat ? This is an important question that my wife is frequently asked me. One of my best friends was suddenly struck by lightning when she found out her two-month of age husband left her for another woman. And the most shocking fact is they are dating for about 8 year. Quit long enough to know each other. So what is the factor that makes my friend married is ruin like hell?
First of all, men are born to be a hunter. Or at lease we think we are born to be a hunter. So with that stigma on our brainless head we always try to fulfill that prophecy. And married are like a banned sticker that not allowed us to be what we used to be.
So married man cheats for the shake of the stigma. All of man friends are make a fun of his status that are not capable to what a man suppose to be. When his ego was struck by this joke, he will try to show to others or at lease to him self that he is still the same person. And how he does that? By cheating!
A lot of affair is start by a simple test. What test is that? It was “Am I still attractive to other woman” test. Start with a simple chitchat talk and end up in some stranger bedroom. It’s true that married man cheat just as a simple as snapping his finger. And most of a man affair is not intend to make a long relationship. Like I said before it was just a test. But after a few date, there are two type of man. The first one is the one that choose and think it was just for fun. And second one that falls in to deep that think there were nowhere return and decide to leave his first wife.
What my point is, married man cheat is not intending to make a long relationship. We never thing to left our wife. At lease for the first time. So it doesn’t need the next supermodel to make a married man cheat. It does only need an ordinary girl who gave him enough attention but act smartly enough like she unavailable. This is when the hunter silly thought comes apart.
So what a wife should do about it? Well you can just simply read my earlier post in Correlation between sand and relationship post. By that we hope there is no other married man cheat again.
